The Fund

Ladies & Gents this post is about to get serious................jokes :) my daughter's 4th birthday is coming up and i do not have enough money to give her the party she deserves or wants, so i am doing the best i can do ; which is too scrape together what i have and give her what i can. i've created a "zineah's birthday fund" in honour of this. so far, i have just under r400. it is not much. 

it won't get far but i have asked family members to contribute. whatever is in that envelope by end of april 2016 will be the money used towards her party. it will most probably be something small but it will be awesome and she will have loads of fun. i am not telling you this because i want you to feel sorry for me, i am not telling you this because i want your money. i am telling you this because this is me, unfiltered. get to know the financially impaired person i am. i know, that any mother / father / parent, will do what they can for their child. i am doing what i can for mine., it might leave you with a bitter taste but i do not see this as begging, i see this as intuitive, genius even. it's fun, it's funny and it's worth the ugly pitiful stares. i do not feel EMBARRASSED for doing this ; i do not feel ashamed. this is for my daughter; and i am aware that i could just do something lowkey but we all know that lowkey still costs money. what i have by the end of april 2016 is what will be utilised ; whatever that might be

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I’ve been meaning to write this post for weeks, hell; months even!
I just haven’t had the time and I decided to make the time
In traffic
Listening to music
This post will most probably not be as awesome as I had planned
Ideas always seem to run better in my head than on paper
Seriously though?
Have you ever just sat and be ridiculously grateful?
This vessel that carries you around
Breathes for you
Pisses and shits for you
Makes sure you don’t fucking die!
It’s amazing
Hear me when I say this
Your body is amazing!
Wobbly tummy
Saggy tits
Flat ass
All of it
Every single inch of that curvaceous body
That hair? Damn son!
Get to knowing how to appreciate the fine specimen you are
Take a moment and appreciate all you are
I’m not saying you should rip your clothes off and prance around naked
Appreciate YOUR functions
Breathing! Who taught your radical body to do that? It’s doing a damn good job of making sure you don’t die!
Who taught it to empty it’s bowels? Did you? Your body is doing a great job of keeping you regular!
Making sure your emotions are ON.POINT!
Take a long damn look
Your body is amazing, right?
Appreciate it
Love it
And stop being so damn hard on yourself
Your body has done so much for you
Alive and well? Thanx body
Coughing? Thanx body
Got your period? Thanx body
Took a shit before a big date? Thanx body
The small things we take for granted
Thanx body
#BodyAppreciationDay #JustMadeUpADay


One More Sleep

So, it’s been ages since I’ve blogged and it’s because I’ve been busy and eveb though I’ve had these absolutely awesome ideas running through my head ; I just haven’t had the time to jot them down. So here they are, running rampant in my head, like a kid let loose in a candy store. But this post is not about that. This post is about tomorrow. Friday, 11 March 2016. I have a test and I am a nervous wreck.
It’s not that I don’t know my shit. I know it. I know it well but psychologically I am stressed and nervous. So please, whoever you are, where ever you are from – please pray for me. For guidance. Peace. To pass ??