my own BEFORE & AFTER

Ladies and Gents
I don’t believe in promoting a product, unless, I myself have used it
So here you go……….

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and NO, it’s not the lighting that has changed. I actually used an Insta filter to see if the results were real & like I said, this is me…….in all my disgustingness πŸ™‚

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This is the one with the Insta filter

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Thank You

For all the comments, likes and boosts!
I really appreciate and it feels good to engage with my readers/followers
It’s also super great to read the comments
You people are all so nice and I’m glad I could make a few of you laugh………what’s life without a little bit of laughter?
On another note, the reason why I haven’t been blogging is because I have been crazy ass busy and I guess I don’t have much to say but I thought I owed you all an explanation as to why I haven’t been around, so there you have it
Stop missing me so much. I’m still here. Just busy……..

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An Instagram Post

I don’t own alot of things and I have not been very happy with my body but today I felt good…….also it was a chance to show off my gorgeous new ring and my nails πŸ™‚

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Definitely planning to get into shape in the near future but I am also very proud of my stretchmarks. They have made me who I am. A single 27 year old mother to a beautiful 4 year old girl

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Also, follow my fabulously fat arse on Instagram – superbusymom143

Update | Moral Dilemma

Happy Friday Bitches!!!!!
Firstly, I’d like to thank all those people who commented and liked on my blog this past week.
Between the 2 of us, my blog has gotten more action than I have these past 4 years πŸ™‚
This post is for everyone who commented on my post of Wednesday. It’s a story of sorts
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Mom, dad and I are sitting downstairs, on the stairs, and we call the fulprit down. Fulprit comes down and we ask if he has seen an envelope,of course his answer is “No”
We ask if he has seen my mom’s ring (went missing in November of last year), to which the response becomes epic and we all achieve faces like “WWHHAATT!”
“Are you talking about your gold ring with the diamond in it?”
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Folks! We have a thief!!!!!!! Alert the fuckin police……..
Seriously, no one told him what the ring looks like so how did he know it was that specific ring?
My mother has like a gazillion rings – the only way she was able to explain to my father what ring was missing was by showing him my ring (it’s quite similar)
And THEN!!!!! we went through the house and anointed it…..as we do
*apologies for jumping through this story* #sorrynotsorry
Now, normally before I head off to bed for the night. I leave my bags in the lounge, ya’ know, coz I’m forgetful as fuck!
I leave money in my bag coz I’m also a major snack bitch
Yesterday morning, I proceeded to discover that my LAST 2 notes of 2016 (2 R10’s) were gone……..like the wind
Yor! I was just like “can you freakin not?”
Unbelievable
Now, you’re probably thinking ” How can you accuse this 13 year old?”
Well,because he was the only fucker in the house and I know that my old ass parents wouldn’t just take my money, especially when they know it’s for petrol
I was actually pretty damn proud of myself for keeping that money for so long and not spending it

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So, that’s it ladies & gents
No fessing up but we all know the truth
I am so disappointed that I can’t even look at him
Makes me lekker jas

Moral Dilemma

Good Morning Humans,
I have a Wednesday dilemma and I need your help
There was someone money in my cupboard, been in there since December and this morning…….it’s just gone
My dad saw it there yesterday when he put some poster paint in my cupboard
Now,it’s super high up so suffice to say my 4 year old can’t reach it
Suffice to say I know who the fulprit (fuckin culprit) is
What do I do?
Do I violate their privacy like they violated mine or do I politely ask if they took it?
Please note, the fulprit has been making purchases since yesterday…….and this would not be the first time

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This Shit Makes My Blood Boil!!!!!!

Firstly, I want to point out that I saw this on my Facebook timeline and I normally share and comment in that way but tonight I have decided to do it via my blog

1. This video is upsetting – abuse
2. I will ask you to stop reading now because I am about to get real angry and I will offend my more sensitive readers
3. I have copied the link from my Facebook so,if you have the stomach to watch 10 seconds of it, go ahead and click

This Cunt Of A “Woman”

4. What the fuck? Seriously! Shit like this makes me so ma se poes jas. Yes Athena, but why did you watch it? Because I like to be informed about the fuckin vile creatures that roam this Earth. This vile violent cunt has taken my sleepyness from me. I am so fuckin angry. All I want to do is punch her in her fuckin vag and stomp on her gevriet! These kids are defenseless. The mere fact that they have NO more tears to cry is evidence of the hours of abuse they have had to suffer. This is what monsters are made of. No matter the amount of counselling, these kids will grow up thinking that this abusive, sexually inappropriate behaviour is normal. What’s to stop them from shoving a stick up an animal’s arse? I just want to take this cunt and rip her insides out! It’s makes me so befok to think that people, male or female, feel like the only way they can exert power is by being manipulative, abusive and downright fuckin demonic. Children are helpless. They need our help. They do not need this. They were not asked to be born. It is not fair you stupid inbred piece of ant shit! I share these disheartening and heartbreaking videos because we need to share what society does. What society is. Fuckin hell,this is one of the STRONG reasons why I will remain single. Can’t be fuckin trusting no one with my child. Fuck! I’m not the greatest mother but atleast I’m not a soul sucking fuckfaced cunt. This is some next level whore fuckeree. Can’t deal with this man. Never fuckin safe and then you get these fuckers that still leave the kids with them and install a camera. Motherfucker! I can’t fuckin deal😠😠😠😠😠😠😠

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Peace✌

2016 | Be The Change

Good Morning Ladies & Gentlemen

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It’s the start of a new year which means new opportunity right?
All I ask is that you take TIME (something we all waste) to pop me an email, with the subject heading WORDPRESS POST
I’ll then respond with this opportunity
Just like you’re reading this, you’ll read the email and then you’ll respond with a YAY or a NAY to this opportunity
You be the change in your life
This opportunity works, with or without you
Have an open mind
That’s all
Thank You

>athena.japhta@gmail.com<

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Vent Post 2016 #firstANDhopefullylast

Ladies & Gents
Good Morning
It’s my first day back at work and I had a semi kak day yesterday
Yesterday, I was moer upset but now I’ve calmed down a bit
This vent post is about people that have kids and don’t take care of them
Like, they just pass their kids off to other people
Like they make no effort to spend time with the kid/s
They just do a drop and go
It pisses me the fuck off because it’s damn inconsiderate
These parents do what they want and say what they want
Noted, my daughter and I do have some attachment issues but these non attachment parents are just as bad
So, not so much a vent post, just a post I guess coz we all know my vent posts contain MUCH MORE swearing

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