Ready

Ladies & Gents, I am proud to announce (don’t know if I should be announcing this though) that I am ready! For L.O.V.E 🙂

 

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This is kinda like when I turned 26. I felt happy & content & awesome. I finally had this sort of clarity and it was nice. Ya know, to be all clarified and what have you not. Today, I just had some more clarity and it felt AWESOME!!!!! I had this overwhelming sense of happiness and love and I now see that I am ready and willing.

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Maybe I’m crazy or maybe I’m just hopeful but for a long time, I’ve pushed the idea of being with someone and romantics out of my mind. And I was happy, on my own; as a single individual. As a single mother. 

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I was happy. I still am. Just now though; I’m also ready.

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& I know that I have a child and I have to consider her & I am. This is something for me & her. It’s a package deal & I know now is the time.

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I CAN’T WAIT. I AM SO EXCITED. I AM SO READY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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My first ever official……

#OOTD & its not even a proper shot.
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It’s been ages since I’ve worn a necklace & the scarf is brand new #gift #giftgiving
The boots are old and don’t stay up for the entire day. My big man like calfs always push them down to the ground. The blackness of the outfit? That’s my favourite dress that has a bleach stain on it 😯 so I’ve covered it up with a black peplum top #new #favourite
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☝ that’s seriously how I look first thing in the morning #vetlippe

Seriously…..

Ladies & Gents,
I will bother you about this until I get EVRRY.SINGLE.PERSON in my life to dedicate ONE HOUR to listening.

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Seriously, just hit me up. It will be worth your while.

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It’s an opportunity to meet new people,see me and learn something new. Ain’t nothing wrong with that 😉

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#YSBH #WV #doit #now #noregrets #life #living

Pre – Fathers Day

So, it’s amper Father’s Day. I am still blessed to have mine around. Zineah’s dad was an on-off figure for the first year of her life. She is 3 years old and he hasn’t been an ‘on’ figure for just over 2 years.
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In preparation of Father’s Day, I’ve decided to gift my dad and grandad a few things. And because I know I’ll see my Uncle,Brother and cousin’s husband; I thought I’d get them something small.

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This is my dad’s gift & the below is for my grandad 👇

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So, to everyone who is still blessed enough to have their father’s around, pls cherish them.
For those who have passed on, do something in their honour.
For the father’s whose kids have passed on, I pray for you.
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Here’s a pre – Happy Father’s Day (even to the single mothers)
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Homebody

What is a homebody?

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After Googling that,I immediately clicked onto the buzzfeed link, as per below  👇

Buzzfeed | Signs you’re a homebody

Now, besides number 8,everything else is basically correct. I love me some hiking.

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The pre-Zineah,possibly still school going me homebody ; – I would spend my days & nights at home. I loved being at home. Reading. Exercising. Writing. Because, back then, I was still on the parentals schedule, I went where they went. If it was a compulsory event, I went. If it was the mall, I opted out. I remember waking up on a Saturday, showering & getting back into my pj’s.
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The post-Zineah homebody me ; – I wanna be at home. I dont mind going to the park,church,grandparents/aunt or even the mall but anywhere else? I’d rather not. I think being a single parent also has an impact on that. I can comfortable paint with her at home or “kick ball”. Don’t get me wrong. I take her out. Movies. Mall. Park. Elsewhere. I love being at home. With her. & in all honesty, I would much rather spend my days (&nights) with her than with anyone or anywhere else. Seriously. I know I should broaden her horizons and move out of the comfort zone and I guess oneday I’ll be pushed and I won’t have a choice. Until then though……
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I think it’s because I like to be comfortable. I just don’t like getting dressed for things. Work – Yes. Knowing I can just piss and kak at home is so much better. Knowing I can escape the crowd at a moments notice is what I live for. Knowing I can comfortably lay on my bed. Slippers. Sweats. Hair all crazy. That’s what I love.
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I know she will leave me oneday. I know she won’t need me as much.

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Just jumped out of the shower & into my pj’s? BLISS ❤
About to have some QT with my child? PRICELESS 💜

Friday Night Favour

Ladies & Gents,
If you don’t know,now you do.

The hashtag is #StopYulin2015
Google Yulin 2015 and the results in your face are horrifying!!!!!

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The below images are what I got from Facebook.

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It’s serious and we need to put an end to this……NOW!!!!!

Do the right thing and #StopYulin2015

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