Well wishes

It is officially the 26 December 2014 and most probably my last post for the year. The one to end it all:'(

I just want to take a moment to wish everybody well for the New Year. I loathe those BC’s and last minute word vomits #eeuuww 😷

I hope that wherever you wish to be in the future,that you’ll find your footing in 2015. That this will be your year,whatever it is that you decided.

I hope that all your wishes come true ; whatever they may be. That you are able to walk tall and be proud of the 2015 You!

I pray for every success in your life,personally and professionally. As a friend of mine says, I hope you find your pure bliss 😉 #claytoncashcasimali

I hope that you make 2015 a million times better,not missing any opportunity to go for something. Climb that mountain top and claim your prize.

Whatever blessings are about to be bestowed upon you,I pray that you embrace it with open arms.

For new love – I pray for endurance.
For old (but always new love) – I pray for understanding.

Always realise that you are strong and beautiful/handsome. This is your chance to be better than the last you. Start a trend. Sing a song. Be a motivator and stay determined.

Hard work pays off – make time for commitment #shabiersulaiman

This life isn’t made of handouts and nothing is ever free #thereisalwaysapricetopay

Don’t get down and out. Appreciate the beauty in it all and appreciate the beauty in you.

2015 is the year for flaws #letsstartafashiontrend #flawsarebeauty #flawsareme

Never give up. There will always be someone, somewhere saying ‘ I wish’. You are that wish – make it worth it.

I do sincerely hope that you do well and make you proud. Go forth and prosper. Sow those seeds. Prune your lawn.

Do something incredible or do something ordinary #nojudgement just make sure you do something.

It’s now or never, let’s make 2015 your bitch😮:D😄😈😇😒


I am so grateful for you……all of you. In this lifetime there will always be something to remind me of you. Some funny anecdote, a picture even.
I am grateful for the people I’ve met and I look forward to the people I still have to meet.
Each and every one of my friendships have a different impact on me and I will never forgot you ; any of you:)


The year is not over yet but it is the year that was

My year to date? Just the basics though – retrenched, new job, bad attitude, fights, date, screaming and then some and lately ; peace, dissappointment (have never really been sure how to spell this word #baffled) and understanding.

Today, I was dissappointed (that word again) and as I’m typing this post I still am. I think I’m a bit more perplexed and in a bit of a ‘wondering’ mood. I would love to know but I dare not ask because I do not want to open that can of worms. I don’t have time and I won’t make time either. I am just so over it.

There’s this guy though – I’m hoping something happens between the two of us even though I know that’s a far fetched dream. We talk but not alot. I miss him and our chats.

I guess I’m still stuck but I vow to let go,before the end of this year, before the end of this weekend. I will move forward and I will build my empire!


Good Evening One and All,
I hope you had a great Christmas and that you’re ready for the New Year.

This post is dedicated to all the people that have gotten married this year – well all those I can remember. I pray only for blessings and prosperity in your life.






To those I’ve forgotten…..apologies but none the less LOVE


So….I’m a 26 year old single mom who still lives with her parents. My daughter is 2 1/2 years old. We have our own space in the house and she knows (kinda, but not all the time) her boundaries. Now,this post is about me and my mom. This is not to paint her in a negative light or me in a positive one; this is just a post to express something that nags me.

My mom is busy – like crazy busy ALL THE TIME. She always has something to do or somewhere to be. The thing is I love her but I feel,for lack of a better term – neglected and even unwanted. Like I’m a nuisance,a disruption. I always wanna tell her stuff but I feel like I’m (as a person), my presence is not acknowledged. You know like if I wasn’t here it would be one less voice for her. I know that sounds bad but I don’t mean it like that. For example,I’ll say something to her and she’ll walk away – it makes me feel as if I don’t matter and my words mean nothing. It hurts,honestly. Like a whole lot but it’s not lile I can tell her coz I know shell think I’m overreacting. Maybe I am. She’s busy and I have a child so I shouldn’t really need my mother anymore right?!

I noticed she only engages when she initiates – I try to do her technique but I fail MISERABLY because I can’t pretend to not care. I can’t pretend to not be interested. I’ve spoken to my dad about this and he says that she is listening and she is taking note.

I just don’t know. I feel alone. She’s here but I miss her so much.


Love…….it’s an issue that irks me especially where ‘youngsters’ are concerned.
I’m a regular Facebooker and it doesn’t take me long to scroll through my newsfeed and see dozens of young people inlove,and it’s instant love. The kind of love that happens overnight (I ain’t saying there is anything wrong with it) and basically just stays for that night. Like this week it’s one person, queue break up and then probably less than a month later, there’s someone else. And it’s all ‘I love you blah blah’. Now, I’m not jelly, I am just more prone to being realistic and being a single mother I don’t really have a choice. Dammit I wish I could also just love every Tom,Dick and Harry……sometimes a Sally 🙂 I am just wondering why?! Is it so easy to just fall inlove after a week or less? Are you just falling inlove with the honeymoon phase, the cuteness that hasn’t showcased the crazy? I’m not knocking it, I’ve tried it but how is it genuine or long lasting if it’s a different someone every other month. I get it though, it’s easier to be inlove than inlike. In today’s society, everything is rushed and it’s best to jump on the train before it leaves the station. Why do you love though? What is it about that person that makes you wanna say I LOVE YOU after 3 days?! No harm in love – its all good. It releases some kinda endorphins right?

Go ahead – get on that train. I’ll just stand on the platform for now.


I hardly ever go full coloured. I keep it aside for special people. You know,the ones who aren’t prone to being completely judgemental. Also,it’s a side that might just give you a heart attack because not only does it not suit me but it’s an ugly look for me. Sometimes I have to go down,deep down,into my roots because the world becomes a place of 15wtf’s a minute. Some people even get me to that point of 15wtf’s a minute. Now,if I went full blast coloured on Facebook,he would know I was talking about him,so that’s exactly why I chose to do this via my blog #thebitchdontreaditanyway. Are you ready? If you know me,you’ll read this in my voice and laugh,because well, you know me.

Yor bra! How kak dom are u? U r mos jas!!! She cheated on u and she made u feel so kak and now this!? Naai man bra,u mos a groot poes to go back to her. Naai man,I thought you were better than this. Like what the poes ma bru. Naai man. U musn’t be so. I’m kak disappointed. Yor ma bru you are not wys! Yor bra I don’t know hey

DONE!!!! Lol some people just make me have to be THAT coloured

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